Q 56

In every relationship I've been involved in, regardless of who breaks up with whom, the guy always comes back wanting another chance. I don't understand this. I'm not one to look back.

Can someone please enlighten me if this is a typical male behavioral trait or what the real agenda is? It's puzzling to me.


No, like many other things in life, this is not typical of men, it belongs to each individual. I've been in both situations. What makes it a recurring theme for you is you. We all have our own pattern that sees things repeat, sometimes ad nauseam. It might be something you do unconsciously that gives them the idea that a second chance is possible or maybe you tend to choose guys who will ask for a second chance.

It's tricky or impossible to break that kind of pattern, but no, it's not a gender-based thing.