Q 67

How many women have you slept with?


At first, I thought I would ignore this question. I didn't see the point. Any number I gave would be interpreted in countless and wildly different ways, one for every reader. It would immediately induce bias. For many it would result in comparison and self-judgment, shame, doubt, anxiety...

So I will turn this around and answer with: Is this a relevant question?

To me, whatever the gender of the person asking or the gender of the person being asked, it is irrelevant.