Maxime Durocher - Straight Male Escort — Male Escort for Women

The Etiquette

Whether you are new or not to the world of companionship and escorting, please take the time to read the following attentively so that we may have the best date possible.

There are a few things that all companions and escorts expect when meeting their date and we all have our own quirks, often based on peculiar past experiences. I am no different and I prefer to let you know in advance, so that there is no misunderstanding between us.

Some of these are mere technicalities aiming at making our time together as smooth as possibles. Others are there for safety or health reasons. A few will give you insight into my personality.

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The deposit is not reimbursable if you cancel our date.

If I am traveling to see you, it is not transferable to another date.

I ask for a deposit to help me manage my reservations. That way, I can confidently decline a request that is conflicting with a previous one without missing a wonderful opportunity.

It also separates casual requests from the more serious ones. All the requests are important to me, but I have to give precedence to those ready to invest in our adventure.

Lastly, if I have to travel to come to see you, I need that deposit to book my transportation.

That way, this will not need to be a subject of conversation, which helps create a better environment for our date.

For more discretion, you can put it in an unsealed envelope.

You can also simply put it within my reach so that I may take possession of it.

This is standard protocol within the sex industry. It takes the business part out of the way as quickly and efficiently as possible.

So, if, for example, we go to the restaurant together, you will need to pick up the check for the both of us.

That's another pretty standard thing. We all assume that every expense will be taken care of, from coat-check to tip. We even assume that if you ask us if we need something, it's because you want to offer us a gift.

Let's say you did ask me if I needed something and then we pass in front of a sunglass shop and I say that I would need a pair and we proceed into the shop, it's assumed that you would be paying for the glasses unless you raised an objection during the purchasing process.

Good personal hygiene makes the experience better, so before we engage in any intimate activities, I ask that we both shower. To sex professionals, this is a very important point.

You might be rolling your eyes right now. However, I assure you that even well-intentioned ladies have erred without knowing.

This is crucial before oral sex, whether you had a long flight or just went to the bathroom, because I do not like the taste of urine. Please, keep that in mind.

I have latex-free protection in case you are, but please inform me before hand.
A few kisses are fine, but I don't want to find myself having to produce them more than I want to.

I have my limits and I'd like them to be respected. It would be awkward for both of us if I had to say so in the middle of our date.

I'm a minimalist and I like to live my life with very few possessions. It's just how I am, and I thank you for your understanding.

This is especially true for sweets, but also perishables, like flowers.

You really want to give a little something extra? Think: money.

I do not generally drink, but you can if you want. However, I would ask it to be in moderation.

This might sound silly, but an unknown person with impaired judgment can be hazardous to herself and to her companion.

If you smoke, I would like us to discuss how we will handle it before our date to make sure we can accommodate each other. I am sure we will find a way to do so.
I think it is normal to exchange email between encounters and it is very necessary to do so before the first one, and those are never a waste of time even if you do not hire me. We both get to know each other and exchange, it's important.

However, please respect my off time. I am not an entertainment system you can call or text anytime you want to get a fix. I do not offer virtual services outside our face to face meeting.

Privacy is very important to me, yours as much as mine. So, let's avoid the following subjects: my name, day and month of birth, and the relationships with the people in my life, family, friends and others.

The same goes for what I'm thinking. So, please do not ask: "What are you thinking?".

First, whatever your culture or view of sex work, never argue the donation. What I ask cannot be negotiated. Period. To do otherwise is insulting to me, or any other sex worker.

Second, do not judge my industry or at least keep it to yourself. We are not abused, we are not drug addicts, unfortunate souls with a difficult past or less intelligent, less educated, than the rest of the population. Abuse and violence are criminal acts that are not part of our work, the rest is the same the world over for everybody and every job.

Third, do not test me. Do not try to pass some test on me to see if I qualify. If you cannot ask or judge for yourself, then move on.

Fourth, I am not here to sell myself to you. So, never ask me why you should hire me or to say something convincing. That's insulting. I know my own worth, if you can't see it, then move on.

I will do whatever is in my power to help you out. All your suggestions are welcome.

Example, if you so desire, we can discuss details using secure encrypted email services like ProtonMail (a system where even the administrators do not have access to your mail).

Finally, a delicate subject. My erection. It's not guaranteed. Even though I'll do my best for it to be present during our time together, and it usually is, it might not make an appearance, it might also stopped working for some reason.

On such occasion, I will take care of you to the best of my abilities, you can be sure of that. Pleasure doesn't require a male erection.

Remember that a faulty erection is not a partner's fault, and certainly not yours, it can happen to anyone at any time. Simply being tired can do it. An erection depends on a lot of factors, often psychological ones that are completely unrelated to the person we find ourselves with.